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May all of us children, grandchildren and great grandchildren carry the torch that is now ours to carry and be faithful to Our God.
"May all who come behind us find us faithful."
O God, you have helped me from my earliest childhood - and I have constantly testified to others of the wonderful things you do. And now that I am old and gray, don't forsake me. Give me time to tell this new generation (and their children too) about all your mighty miracles. Ps. 71: 17-18 TLB
In attempting to put this project together - looking at all the potential people involved, the list of name of people was daunting. It would truly be impossible to edit and compile such a memorial without the help of all the families involved in the Derksen Clan. To the many of you that contributed, I express my heartfelt appreciation. Many special thanks also go to Julie Neufeld - for all of her hard work. If she had not kept the genealogy up to date, this memorial would be impossible. Thank you Julia!
An extra special thanks goes to Julia for volunteering to proof read all of the stories that go into this massive memorial. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. It looks so much better now.
A very special thanks goes to my husband, Phillip, who has been very patient during the birthing, typing and editing process that this memorial has taken. He has also on my whim accomplished the painting of the cover of this memorial depicting of what Heaven may look like. Thank you, Phil for the use of your talents and imagination.
While some people may think of death as morbid, it is but a passing from one room to the next. As long as there are people living on the earth or until the Lord returns for his own children, this project will never ever be complete. With this in mind, this memorial is set up in such a way that it can be continually added to in the years to come or as long as there is interest.
It is my hope that generations to come will come to appreciate the sacrifices and contributions to life that their ancestors have made to make their lives better as well as gain a better understanding of their roots. In doing this project, it has been an eye-opening experience as well as overwhelming at times to take on and complete such a huge endeavor. I have learned much about this side of my family - of its struggles, sorrows and joys. It is with this in mind that I hope that you will learn to appreciate your family in a new light all over again and perhaps pass some of their strengths to the next generation.
Naomi Kapplehoff
Editor
At some of the memorials that I have attended, a phrase "though he is dead he still speaks" used. I first heard this phrase at my father's funeral as a young child in 1961. At a family gathering in Borden, Sask. to honor the birthday of my grandmother, my father sang a song for her, which was later played back at his own memorial. This is what I thought that phrase meant at that time.
I now understand this to mean that even when we have gone to our eternal rest, we still have a lasting effect on those around us - positive or negative. What we do in our earthly life will have an influence on generations to come. This becomes part of the legacy that we leave our children and grandchildren.
In putting together this memorial, a letter was sent to me that Marjorie Nickel Wheeler had written. Knowing that she did not have much time left on earth, she wrote this letter to convince people of the merits - that even in the midst of her suffering (cancer), God was still in control. With the blessing and permission of her husband, Mike Wheeler, I will let her letter speak for itself.
Dear Friends:
"Thanks be to God who always leads us in His triumph in Christ and manifests through us the sweet aroma of the knowledge of him in every place." 2 Cor. 2:14. All the way my Savior leads me, what have I to ask beside? Can I doubt His tender mercy who through life has been my Guide? Heavenly peace, divinest comfort, here by faith in Him to dwell. For I know what'ere befall me, Jesus doeth all things well.
Yes, Jesus has led me all the way and He has been so good and so faithful. "What though the pathway be lonely, and dark the shadows fall. I know where'er it leadeth my Father planned it all. I'll sing through the shade and the sunshine. I'll trust Him whatever befall. I sing for I cannot be silent. My Father planned it all."
God is in control, my dear friends. Nothing passes His notice. Continue to trust Him. You can trust His heart. He loves us all so much. I have not wanted to say good-bye to you all, but I will go His way. I have given my life to Him to do with as He pleases. Believe my dear friends that He has our best I mind. I love you all so much and would so like to stay, but I will wait for you now in heaven. God has indeed blessed my life with so many dear, dear friends. Who could have ever imagined all the good things you have done for me and my family - all the blessings of love and friendship. My life has been rich indeed.
For those of you who do have not yet trusted the Lord or perhaps have turned your back for a time, He has made us His ambassadors of reconciliation. This is my last opportunity to plead with you - be reconciled to God! Is there some sin you are guarding or hiding?
Turn from it and be reconciled to God. Is there someone with whom you are angry or bitter? Turn to God and forgive them. Be reconciled. It is not too late. It is the right thing to do and your heard will rejoice in being at peace with God. He is our Hope and our Joy and our Comfort. Jesus says, "Turn to Me all who are weary and heavy laden and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me for I am gentle and humble of heart and you shall find rest for your souls." Matthew 11
I have known that to be true in my life and I pray that you will turn to God and know it to be true in yours as well. I've gone on a journey and I'm waiting for you in heaven. Live in such a way that you may win. Don't allow Satan to turn you away from knowing the true God in a personal way. God will be with you and He will take care of you. His plan is perfect and it is for your good. You may not see it now, but you will understand when we see Him.
I love you all. Please watch out for my family. God will take care of you my dear ones. Hope in God. Trust Him. He will be your comfort and your guide. He will be your tower of strength. He will care for you. He will keep you. He will not slumber nor sleep. God's grace is sufficient.
Still trusting,
Marjorie
October 4, 2003
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You're gone but not forgotten
Never shall your memory fade
Sweetest thoughts shall ever linger
Round the grave where you were laid
A bitter cup a shock severe
To part with you we loved so dear
But trust in God, we'll meet again
Sleep on, dear one, take thy rest
Your pain is gone, that's the best
God took you home, it was his will
But in our heart you're living still
But again, sometime, dear one,
When our days of life are fled
In Heaven we will meet you
Where no farewell tears are shed
Days of Darkness still come over us
Years of sorrow will silently flow
But fond memory keeps you near us.
Tho Heaven claimed you,
To be with God high above the earth
Gerhard & Anna Derksen
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